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		<title>By: Kelly Moreton</title>
		<link>http://www.nuvement.com/2009/02/15/firsta-confession-partone/comment-page-1/#comment-84</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Moreton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 00:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahaha!  BRILLIANT! </description>
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		<title>By: David Hickman</title>
		<link>http://www.nuvement.com/2009/02/15/firsta-confession-partone/comment-page-1/#comment-78</link>
		<dc:creator>David Hickman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 20:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In all fairness, my original post was an attempt to answer the initial question stated above.  No agenda.  Just things that I think are lame in the blog world.  I think we are still very much on the topic.  If I caused a speed bump, however, my apologies.   
 
This is a such great discussion, so if I may, let me restate the question to keep us on target.  Thanks for the reminder Mark H!  Great discussion Jarrett! 
 
&quot;What&#8217;s a lame, boring, or uninspired thing that you are so tired of seeing on blogs?&quot; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In all fairness, my original post was an attempt to answer the initial question stated above.  No agenda.  Just things that I think are lame in the blog world.  I think we are still very much on the topic.  If I caused a speed bump, however, my apologies.   </p>
<p>This is a such great discussion, so if I may, let me restate the question to keep us on target.  Thanks for the reminder Mark H!  Great discussion Jarrett! </p>
<p>&quot;What&rsquo;s a lame, boring, or uninspired thing that you are so tired of seeing on blogs?&quot;</p>
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		<title>By: Jarrett Stevens</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jarrett Stevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 19:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can&#039;t say there will be any Lost Theories.  I only have 4 posts up at this time.  Maybe after 8 months or so.  I mean I started this Blog on Feb. 15.  It&#039;s Feb. 16 today.  Check my Post on Feb. 23 and see if I say anything there.  Maybe after 42 posts I feel comfortable talking about Lost. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can&#039;t say there will be any Lost Theories.  I only have 4 posts up at this time.  Maybe after 8 months or so.  I mean I started this Blog on Feb. 15.  It&#039;s Feb. 16 today.  Check my Post on Feb. 23 and see if I say anything there.  Maybe after 42 posts I feel comfortable talking about Lost.</p>
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		<title>By: Jarrett Stevens</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jarrett Stevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 19:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Point.  I couldn&#039;t agree more.  BTW Have I mentioned the book that I&#039;m currently working on... :)  Great to have you here Mark.  Miss seeing you every week at the Duece. 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Point.  I couldn&#039;t agree more.  BTW Have I mentioned the book that I&#039;m currently working on&#8230; <img src='http://www.nuvement.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Great to have you here Mark.  Miss seeing you every week at the Duece.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Henderson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Henderson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 19:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wild Tangents! I know that this is hard to control, but one of my pet peeves are commentors that completely change the topic of discussion for their own agenda. If there is a new subject worth discussing, then i think it should be in a new post. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wild Tangents! I know that this is hard to control, but one of my pet peeves are commentors that completely change the topic of discussion for their own agenda. If there is a new subject worth discussing, then i think it should be in a new post.</p>
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		<title>By: Jarrett_Stevens</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jarrett_Stevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 17:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Jonathan.  Great ideas.  Good to know I can breathe the air in this blogosphere. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Jonathan.  Great ideas.  Good to know I can breathe the air in this blogosphere.</p>
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		<title>By: Jarrett_Stevens</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jarrett_Stevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 17:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So weird.  I&#039;m gonna be posting an entry based on my time with Hick called &quot;Sloppy Salmon&quot;.  It should kill any and all buzz from this site. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So weird.  I&#039;m gonna be posting an entry based on my time with Hick called &quot;Sloppy Salmon&quot;.  It should kill any and all buzz from this site.</p>
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		<title>By: David Hickman</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Hickman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 16:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CASE.  First, miss you.  Hope you are well.  (Did I just name drop on someone else&#039;s blog?  Now that IS bad!) 
 
Second, not thinking of any one particular blogger, just a combination of many &quot;pastors&quot; blogs I&#039;ve ran across over the last few years.  If one particular &quot;blogger&quot; came to your mind, that&#039;s really funny.   Maybe we can call them out here on nuvement.com.  Wait, that would go against points #2, #3, #4. 
 
Third, my top 6 blog pet peeves would be hard for ME to keep under control.  If I had a blog (and surprisingly I don&#039;t) I&#039;d try to rule the world with it.  All I have is a Twitter account and I find myself doing these 6 on occasion!  So, as you blog, blog freely my friend.  I&#039;m not the blog nazi.   
 
Hope this conversation JS started will cause us to rethink our blogs/words as you pointed out. 
 
Fourth, did you hear about the time my good/dear friend Jarrett Stevens and I went out for Sushi in Charlotte?  We had a great conversation about time management for worship leaders who drink dirty chai&#039;s all day long while they write songs.  I&#039;ll talk about it on Twitter later.  Look for it.  It will be titled &quot;Dirty Lyrics!&quot;  Should create a MAJOR buzz!!!  Because it&#039;s all about the buzz...right? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CASE.  First, miss you.  Hope you are well.  (Did I just name drop on someone else&#039;s blog?  Now that IS bad!) </p>
<p>Second, not thinking of any one particular blogger, just a combination of many &quot;pastors&quot; blogs I&#039;ve ran across over the last few years.  If one particular &quot;blogger&quot; came to your mind, that&#039;s really funny.   Maybe we can call them out here on nuvement.com.  Wait, that would go against points #2, #3, #4. </p>
<p>Third, my top 6 blog pet peeves would be hard for ME to keep under control.  If I had a blog (and surprisingly I don&#039;t) I&#039;d try to rule the world with it.  All I have is a Twitter account and I find myself doing these 6 on occasion!  So, as you blog, blog freely my friend.  I&#039;m not the blog nazi.   </p>
<p>Hope this conversation JS started will cause us to rethink our blogs/words as you pointed out. </p>
<p>Fourth, did you hear about the time my good/dear friend Jarrett Stevens and I went out for Sushi in Charlotte?  We had a great conversation about time management for worship leaders who drink dirty chai&#039;s all day long while they write songs.  I&#039;ll talk about it on Twitter later.  Look for it.  It will be titled &quot;Dirty Lyrics!&quot;  Should create a MAJOR buzz!!!  Because it&#039;s all about the buzz&#8230;right?</p>
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		<title>By: Casey Darnell</title>
		<link>http://www.nuvement.com/2009/02/15/firsta-confession-partone/comment-page-1/#comment-66</link>
		<dc:creator>Casey Darnell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 05:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow.  Love your blog space Jarrett! 
 
David - i feel like all those points above are &quot;passive aggressively&quot; speaking to some bloggers i know of....hmmm...it will definitely create a culture of insecurity...if your talking about &quot;said&quot; blogger... 
 
haha...even as i read your points im asking myself  &quot;I hope he hasnt read mine!?!?!&quot; 
 
however...i agree with all of em!  Im a poopy blogger...only have one as another means of putting out music stuff Gods stirring in me...and if it gets the music to some then its worth it! 
 
but i get drawn in on lots of this twitter/blog stuff....it has such a gravitational pull. 
 
so thanks for the great, insightful reminders about how to navigate the blog world in ways that wont just continue to feed our insecurities! 
 
At the end of the day we all want to think &quot;it&#039;s my blog and i can say what i want to&quot; 
but words are powerful things that often cant be taken back. 
 
So i reflect on spiderman and uncle ben &quot;with great power comes great responsibility!&quot; 
 
 
meanwhile i mostly blog about my daughter....so take it easy on me!!! 
 
CASE 
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow.  Love your blog space Jarrett! </p>
<p>David &#8211; i feel like all those points above are &quot;passive aggressively&quot; speaking to some bloggers i know of&#8230;.hmmm&#8230;it will definitely create a culture of insecurity&#8230;if your talking about &quot;said&quot; blogger&#8230; </p>
<p>haha&#8230;even as i read your points im asking myself  &quot;I hope he hasnt read mine!?!?!&quot; </p>
<p>however&#8230;i agree with all of em!  Im a poopy blogger&#8230;only have one as another means of putting out music stuff Gods stirring in me&#8230;and if it gets the music to some then its worth it! </p>
<p>but i get drawn in on lots of this twitter/blog stuff&#8230;.it has such a gravitational pull. </p>
<p>so thanks for the great, insightful reminders about how to navigate the blog world in ways that wont just continue to feed our insecurities! </p>
<p>At the end of the day we all want to think &quot;it&#039;s my blog and i can say what i want to&quot;<br />
but words are powerful things that often cant be taken back. </p>
<p>So i reflect on spiderman and uncle ben &quot;with great power comes great responsibility!&quot; </p>
<p>meanwhile i mostly blog about my daughter&#8230;.so take it easy on me!!! </p>
<p>CASE</p>
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		<title>By: David Hickman</title>
		<link>http://www.nuvement.com/2009/02/15/firsta-confession-partone/comment-page-1/#comment-65</link>
		<dc:creator>David Hickman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 04:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#1 - When blogs are used by leaders to passive aggressively lead those under them.  (i.e. - Post a blog about &quot;a culture of respect,&quot; or &quot;the importance of being early.&quot;)  Know that your staff is reading and be careful to not passively lead them through your blog.  Could quickly create a culture of fear and manipulation. 
 
#2 - When blogs are used by leaders to subliminally &quot;talk junk&quot; or attack other leaders/churches/ministries/individuals who they have a problem/disagreement.  Just creates division and is childish.  Battle ideas...not people. 
 
#3 - When a leader tries to post the most radical/racy/provocative/outlandish topics just to create readership.  If solid content isn&#039;t there, folks will only return to see what your mouthing off about this week.  Which leads to... 
 
#4 - When a blog is more spiritual gossip that spiritual.  If you set your blog up to be a place where you only talk about the radical things your ministry is doing that no one else is attempting, the thousands that came to your last event or the audacious series you&#039;re about to launch, some readers will only follow along to stay in the know and to feed their own envy.  Watch posting things that will only rouse the flesh in your readers.  Point us to something more than what can only be quantified. 
 
#5 - Name dropping.  &quot;My good, dear friend, Billy Graham and I just got back from...&quot;  Points to  insecurity, pride or both.  Use names when appropriate, but if it&#039;s someone that will create a &quot;WOW!&quot; from your readers ask yourself, &quot;Does including this person&#039;s name add to or take away from the overall point I&#039;m trying to make.&quot; 
 
#6 -  Don&#039;t overuse Twitter and Facebook to drive folks to your latest blog entry.  Folks are following you on Twitter to know what you are doing...not what you are writing.  Let your blog be your blog, twitter be twitter and Facebook be Facebook.   
 
Jarrett, you could do all these things and have a mass number of people flock to your blog.  But, you&#039;d be like 95% of other &quot;pastors&quot; blogs I&#039;ve stumbled across.  It&#039;s gross and intuitively obvious to the most casual reader when we use our blogs for selfish/prideful reasons as opposed to God honoring ones.   
 
I&#039;m counting on you.  The Island is counting on you.  Lead us back home... 
 
PS - It&#039;s late, so I got a little honest and windy... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#1 &#8211; When blogs are used by leaders to passive aggressively lead those under them.  (i.e. &#8211; Post a blog about &quot;a culture of respect,&quot; or &quot;the importance of being early.&quot;)  Know that your staff is reading and be careful to not passively lead them through your blog.  Could quickly create a culture of fear and manipulation. </p>
<p>#2 &#8211; When blogs are used by leaders to subliminally &quot;talk junk&quot; or attack other leaders/churches/ministries/individuals who they have a problem/disagreement.  Just creates division and is childish.  Battle ideas&#8230;not people. </p>
<p>#3 &#8211; When a leader tries to post the most radical/racy/provocative/outlandish topics just to create readership.  If solid content isn&#039;t there, folks will only return to see what your mouthing off about this week.  Which leads to&#8230; </p>
<p>#4 &#8211; When a blog is more spiritual gossip that spiritual.  If you set your blog up to be a place where you only talk about the radical things your ministry is doing that no one else is attempting, the thousands that came to your last event or the audacious series you&#039;re about to launch, some readers will only follow along to stay in the know and to feed their own envy.  Watch posting things that will only rouse the flesh in your readers.  Point us to something more than what can only be quantified. </p>
<p>#5 &#8211; Name dropping.  &quot;My good, dear friend, Billy Graham and I just got back from&#8230;&quot;  Points to  insecurity, pride or both.  Use names when appropriate, but if it&#039;s someone that will create a &quot;WOW!&quot; from your readers ask yourself, &quot;Does including this person&#039;s name add to or take away from the overall point I&#039;m trying to make.&quot; </p>
<p>#6 &#8211;  Don&#039;t overuse Twitter and Facebook to drive folks to your latest blog entry.  Folks are following you on Twitter to know what you are doing&#8230;not what you are writing.  Let your blog be your blog, twitter be twitter and Facebook be Facebook.   </p>
<p>Jarrett, you could do all these things and have a mass number of people flock to your blog.  But, you&#039;d be like 95% of other &quot;pastors&quot; blogs I&#039;ve stumbled across.  It&#039;s gross and intuitively obvious to the most casual reader when we use our blogs for selfish/prideful reasons as opposed to God honoring ones.   </p>
<p>I&#039;m counting on you.  The Island is counting on you.  Lead us back home&#8230; </p>
<p>PS &#8211; It&#039;s late, so I got a little honest and windy&#8230;</p>
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